I'd try talking to the instructor first about what's making you feel that way as they may be able to adapt. If that fails, then finding someone whose style suits you better may be worth it. My trainer used to push me and make me think I'd never be able to do some things but that was what I needed to improve - he was someone who was just a natural horseman and couldn't always see why I found something tricky. I always made sure I ended a session with something that felt good and it was worth persevering. Don't give up and good luck

I think your trainer only pushes u hard because she or he wants u to be the best you can be. I had a trainer that used to push me hard and it made me a better rider because of it

I've never had a paid instructor so I personally don't know what to tell you. Just do your very best and if that doesn't work I would quit.